During the week you might be stuck in a uniform or an office dress code, but at the weekend you can let your inner fashionista free. However, a wedding is not the place to debut those $200 ripped jeans as your latest “investment piece.” But you knew that already, didn’t you?
Some wedding fashion rules are obvious (no, a bikini will always be a no no, even at a beach wedding), other rules may be a little murkier. Maybe your dress is a little short, or perhaps you accidentally matched the bridesmaids colours. There are many ways to turn into a wedding-day eyesore, but you don’t have to be that guest. Follow this list of 10 things you should never wear to a wedding, and you’ll keep getting invited.
Now, let’s start with a controversial topic: Can you wear black to a wedding?
Yes, tuxedos are black, and yes, you’ll see plenty of dark suits at a wedding. But historically, black has been a bit of a fashion faux pas for women. It’s the universal colour of mourning, and unless you're sad to still be single, it's best to pick something alternative.
That being said, rules change. A chic black cocktail dress or an elegant gown? Totally fine for an evening event. But if your dress looks more “funeral” than “festive,” swap it for something with a little more joyful.
Weddings are romantic, and you might be hoping to catch the eye of that cute groomsman, but you’re not at a nightclub. If your dress has people wondering , it’s best to rethink your choice.
A little leg? Not a problem. A low neckline? Fine to a degree. But be aware.
We don’t care how “casual” the wedding is—jeans and a T-shirt are not appropriate. Even if the wedding is in a backyard or local hospo venue you really must put in some effort.
A sundress, dress pants, or at least a nice button-down top or dress? Much more appropriate.
Unless the dress code says "black tie," wearing a tux is overkill. The only guy who should be seen in a full penguin suit is the groom (and maybe his groomsmen).
If you’re overdressed, the groom probably won’t be as upset as an upstaged bride but don’t look like you are trying to outshine the man of the hour. A well-tailored suit will be just fine.
You may love that good vintage look, but some outfits should stay in the past, at least when you go to a wedding unless theme appropriate. However, a classic 1960s pencil skirt is fine but a pair of bellbottoms? Perhaps not.
Weddings are about timeless romance, not time-travelled fashion. So, unless the invitation actually says "70s Disco Theme", leave it for this occasion.
You’d think this wouldn’t need to be said, but here we are. Under no circumstances should you wear a tiara to a wedding unless you are the bride, or five years old.
This rule also extends to any other inappropriate headwear such as crowns, decorative headbands or anything else that may give you that regal look! The only person getting the royal treatment should be the bride.
Unless this wedding is at a palace, or ballgowns have been requested you do not need to look like Cinderella.
Formal weddings call for elegant attire, but be wary of the fine line between looking great and being mistaken for the bride! If a ballgown is appropriate avoid white, champagne, or blush and pick something less bridal.
You’re at a wedding, not a corporate meeting. Whilst pantsuits can be chic, and if you feel your best in trousers, go for it but just make sure your look says “fashionable wedding guest” and not “ready to close that deal.” A stylish jumpsuit or flowy wide-leg pants will look sophisticated without looking like you’re striding down the halls of power.
Neon colors, head to toe sequins, a hat whose brim could be used to serve the banquet. All would be a no, no! if your clothing makes more of a statement than the wedding couple just don’t do it!
Weddings are, of course, a great excuse to dress up, but it’s not a one-woman fashion show. If your look is overly eye-catching, tone it down.
And of course, the golden rule of wedding fashion: Never wear white.
Unless the bride has explicitly requested an all-white dress code (highly unlikely), avoid anything that could look like a wedding dress.
If white is your go to colour, perhaps another shade, an ivory, cream or champagne. But also check as not all brides where pure white. If you can try to avoid the dilemma altogether!
Weddings are about celebrating love, not turning heads in your direction, unless you are the bride. If you stick to these basic rules you’ll ensure all eyes focus where they should on the happy couple. Plus, you’ll keep getting invites instead of wondering what you did so wrong (unless you already know!)