It is always helpful to have some ideas before you head out to buy your dress. Here are some tips to get you started –
It is important to know your limits. Getting married can be very expensive regardless of who is paying and it is important to stick to your budget wherever you can! Try not to look at dresses out of your price range, unless you can’t find anything to suit within that range. Remember if you change your dress budget this may well impact on everything else!
Flick through magazines and have an idea of the style of dress you're looking for – do you want to appear romantic, classic, elegant or glamorous. Take into account the whole style and feel you want for your day. Also consider your venue and time of year.
Head out with a friend or your mother. It’s best to take only one person as too many opinions can be as bad as none at all if they all want their input! Remember though to remind them that it is your choice and not their dress and ensure they have a very clear understanding about your goal and your bridal style and budget.
It's also worth asking the designer or retailer for advice both on how the style suits, good styles for your body type and size, on cleaning the fabric in case of small spillages on the day!
If you want to wear your hair up with flowers, try a simple style with the dress to get the feel. If you would like to wear a veil, again try one on with the dress, try different lengths and styles unless you have a very specific style or length in mind in which case you will need to ensure the dress matches!
While you don't have to show your bridesmaids your dress before their own dresses are chosen, make sure their gowns tie in with the theme and colours of your wedding as a whole.
Be prepared to try on a range of dress styles. It’s surprising how often you may find a style you think won't suit you actually looks great.
Don't be rushed into any decisions. If you think you've found 'the one', go away and think about it. Consider the dress within the whole concept of your wedding plans before making your mind up. Get others opinions but at the end of the day the decision is yours so think things through.
When you've found the perfect dress, don't try on any more! Seriously don’t start confusing things but do make sure you are absolutely sure! You can then arrange fittings and shopping for underwear, shoes and any other accessories. Follow your instincts.